More on the cancer

She informed me yesterday, that she has had pain for over a year. She thougth it was galbladder. She went to 1 doctor who patted her on the head and said " you have bad posture" eventhough her Liver enzymes were UP which should have at least been cause for further investigation. So since this has been brewing for over a year undected, I'm not sure how long from here. I would not be surprised if this time next year I'm at a funeral. I am going to visit next Friday. She seems upbeat, but I think it's probaby more shock than anything. Unless she is having an attack of pain she really does not have any symptoms.

Lisa and I are still going in June. hehe. I am so gonna drive her crazy....

Prognosis MEGA Negative

She called today. It is in both lobes of the liver and nothing can be done. Pain management and Hospice. Kinda nuts. I am going to visit in 2 weeks on David's next 9/80 day off. Hopefully my stupid ear infection will be gone by then. I will go alone and visit. Unless more Hell breaks loose, Lisa and I can still go to Disneyland in June. I still need a vacation from Mom. I am not telling my mother. She is not mentally capable to processing the information. I still have to tell her HER parents are gone and that makes her very angry because she thinks I'm lying to her. I can't tell her, I just can't.
more if I know more

side note: ALLLL the Christmas decorations are officially down as of last weekend. The huge wreath is off the garage and all the christmas trees I assume are back in the garage. kinda funny

jan